1. You are anonymous and much better off that way. You will stay that way.
2. Off subject posts are the death of any forum. Idle chatter gets thrown away. This includes test posts, "Hi" posts, baby shower announcements, etc.
3.Pants filling. If you fill/wet your pants and play in it, sit in it for extreme lengths of time or take it too seriously
4. My last post that didn't get on and it said: "(restate the same thing over again getting this post canned too)" or "My last post didn't make it and I don't know why, didn't try to find out why and want to post a whole post about that." The form works. More often than not a bunch of people commit horrible atrocities all at once.
5. Put a NAME in the NAME field. (not under it) As simple as this seems it makes huge difference. Look through the old posts at all the people who don't. This does several things. a. it gives someone a name to reply to, b.) makes your name appear in bold, and c.) sets it off from the post.
As a side note, due to rampant abuse of country codes in a xenophobic manner in lieu of imagination, non-American English speaking countries country and city codes cause your name to get misplaced. Endless strings of numbers also get lost. Are you ______3214789634 in real life?
6. The function and structure of the Old Posts. In computer terms, the old posts resemble a stack (new items added to the top) not a queue (new items added to the end). New Old Posts are added to the top as are new posts that are too long to go on the main page.
7. My post is not in english
8. NO masturbating and NO anal sex. This has almost nothing little to do with gay men because most of the later are written by women. The rest are almost all about women.
9. I am turned on by..., I like to watch..., I want a picture of..., etc is covered in the F avoid disappointment
10. What the Courtesy Phone does and how and when to use it is covered in the FAQ.