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Answers to Brandon
When do you mostly take your poop:
1) before work: Not so often.
2) during work: Quite often, or even on the train to university. The train ride takes almost one hour.
3) after work: Not so often.
Apart from home or any other place where you stayed for some time where else have you pooped in your lifetime? Answer yes or no.
Airport: A few times.
Airplane: Only a couple of times, traveling overseas.
Significant others place: Often wen going by train to work. Some 15 years back I studied in the Netherlands. I went by train over 1 hr every morning. The I got used to pooping in the train. At that time almost all train toilets had open outlets and all that was done went down onto the track!
Friends place (during a visit not a stay): Yes, if I stay for a day or more. But not so often when only on a short visit.
Families place (during a visit not a stay): Yes, if I stay for a day or more. But not so often when only on a short visit.
Restaurant: Sometimes.
School/uni: Very often.
Outdoors: In fact, very often, because I am spending much of my leisure time outdoor. Last summer I was hiking for three weeks in Scandinavia. I think I pooped outdoor almost every day.
Porta potty (f.e. festival): I hate it, but yes I have. I rather prefer to visit some bushes if possible.
Bar: A few times.
Club/disco: Don't think so.
Museum: Yes, many times.
Doctor's waiting room: Never.
Hospital (during a visit not a stay): Don't think so.
A question from me to others: Have you ever been spotted while pooping outdoor? My answer: Well, yes I have. Embarrassing, but I think outdoor people just find it quite normal and often unavoidable.
Midwest Anonymous
Poop POV
For this post I'm gonna do something different. I'm gonna do a POV and describe every detail of how I poop. I hope you enjoy reading this.
Today I am wearing a Sum 41 t-shirt I got from the Blame It On Canada tour, and gray Under Armour sweatpants. I made sure to drink some water so I'd have a good pee while I poop.
When I got to the bathroom I pulled my gray Under Armour sweats down along with my full rise Stafford briefs. I sat on the toilet with my legs spread. I put my left hand on my penis so I pee in the bowl.
My anus opens and I drop 4 small logs. It takes a while for anything else to happen but I continue to sit on the toilet while I still hold my penis down. I start peeing a clear stream from my penis that doesn't last long.
I then feel my anus open again and I poop out two small narrow pieces of poop. I start pushing since I know I am not completely done. I even spread my buttcheeks to speed up the process.
I poop out another small narrow piece of poop and some pee drips from my penis. I push some more and I see a double stream come out of my penis and I poop a little more. I continue to hold my penis down with my left hand and I keep pushing. I let go of my penis for a split second and got some pee drops on the front of the seat.
I poop another small piece of poop. I shoot out a small stream of pee and it hits the water below. I pee again but this time I look between my legs and aim my stream at my poop in the toilet. I think I have to pee yet again but I can only manage around 3 to 5 drops. I wipe the drops of pee on the front of the seat and drop the toilet paper into the bowl.
I keep having drops of pee come out of my penis. I manage to shoot around two spurts of pee out my penis as I hold down. I then have a stream of pee come out my penis and it ends with some drops at the end. I continue to sit on the toilet and pee some more with drops and the occasional spurt coming out.
I then roll off some toilet paper and start wiping my butt. With the first wad I wipe and see heavy residue, so I refold it and wipe again, slightly less. I roll off a second wad and do the same, my penis shoots out a clear stream that I aim at the used paper below me.
I roll off a third wad of toilet paper and wipe my butt, there is way less residue this time, I retold it like I did with the other wads. I wipe my butt a fourth time and repeat the same process and it comes out with nothing on it.
I move back slightly on the toilet seat and hold my penis down since I want to make sure I'm done peeing. I finish with a stream of clear pee and I move my penis from side to side (why not have a little fun after my poop?). I let go of my penis and it lets out a few more drops. One drop goes down my shaft and it continues to let drops out.
I pee a little more and get some on the seat. I wipe it off and just like last time I let the toilet paper fall back on my penis so I don't have to worry about drops of pee getting in my white briefs.
When I think I'm all done, a clear pee stream shoots out of my penis and ends with a few drops. Pee continues to come out of my penis and the last drop is hanging off the end of the head of it. I end it with shooting off one last spurt from it and I pull my white full rise Stafford briefs up and make sure my penis is positioned to my liking, I then pull up my gray Under Armour sweats, close the toilet lid and flush it.
Thank you for reading another experience of mine. I actually wrote this when I was doing it so that's why it jumps around a lot. I also think this is my longest post on the site so far.Sammy
To Veronica:
Veronica, I know you have been posting awhile now about your S.O. Carl clogging your toilet, but have you ever clogged the toilet yourself? Please tell me all about it.Kristi
To Tina
Tina,
I'm sorry for anything I said that's made you feel bad. I truly, truly want you to be happy.
But I feel like I need to be a little blunt.
15 days is an extremely long time to hold it in. That pain you're feeling is your body telling you that there's something wrong.
I'm going to the bathroom (both pee and poop) as I type this. I pooped last about 26 hours ago... and I really needed to go now. I cannot imagine 15 days. I was constipated for 7 days once. It was excruciating when I finally went (I had to have my husband give me an enema).
Poop, like pee, is waste. It's the stuff that's left over after you've digested your food. It has to come out.
I've done some reading about what happens if you persistently keep yourself from pooping.
First off, your body will probably poop whether you want it to or not. In other words, you'll go in your pants. And honestly that's not the worst thing in the world.
Because there are severe medical problems that can develop from not going. First off, your anus (your butthole) can only stretch so much. When you hold it in as long as you have, your poop is going to be extremely wide. You can cause tears in the skin around your hole.
Your large intestine is only designed to hold so much. I've read about cases where people have had perforations from not pooping.
And in extreme cases, the large intestine can actually burst. When that happens, you become septic and can go into shock. And yes, this can kill you. Because you're exposing your insides to bacteria and all the other stuff in your poop that is supposed to come out.
Am I trying to scare you? Honestly... yes, a little bit.
You asked why I enjoy pooping. For me, it's the strong feeling of relief/release. There's a nerve called the vagus nerve that can be stimulated by a large poop. It can release endorphins in a similar fashion that comes with bedroom pleasure.
And it's relaxing for me. I work from home and things can get very hectic. When I'm sitting on the toilet I feel like I am taking a timeout. Like time just kind of stands still.
YOU don't have to enjoy pooping. But sweetheart, you have to do it.
PLEASE stop whatever you're doing and go to the bathroom.
I really, really want to know why you feel SO shameful about this.
Is it a girl thing? Society can be awful on us (men, I'm not trying to exclude you here...). It's not considered "ladylike" for us to go #2.
But every "lady" does it. From your next door neighbor to your friends to the pretty actressses in Hollywood.
Were you made to feel ashamed as a kid? If so, I'd reach out to a therapist. You don't need to feel that way.
Can you pee without feeling disgusted? Or is it just a poop thing?
I'll leave it at this: I've posted about my best friend Emily. She reads this page. (She says she's tried to post but it didn't work for her.)
She was in an abusive marriage for years. One of the ways that her ex-husband abused her was to deny her access to the bathroom. If she he was angry with her, he would simply prohibit her from using the toilet. If she tried to sneak into a bathroom, he'd beat her. When she'd inevitably have accidents, he'd beat her.
She divorced the bum and is now married again to a wonderful man.
But that was her life. She was basically being tortured. She said she was in agony all the time.
This doesn't have to be you. You can let go of these feelings. You can learn to poop without shame or disgust.
We love you and are here for you.
Kristi
David P
replies, update and restaurant poo survey
David P here,
Tina: 15 days without a poo, wow that is some going. I know you want to keep holding your poo in but I really do worry about your health. I am not sure how long you will be able to physically hold it for, but after 15 days it will probably be pretty big and hard and take some serious straining to pass. I wish you luck in both your decisions if you decide to hold it or push it out.
I still haven't gone for a poo since that monster poo in the last story I did some really hard pebbles that hurt but other than that nothing. I actually might prefer being constipated as I was eating lots of fibre a couple weeks back to try and help and it made my poo really mushy and loose which was pretty grim when I desperately needed the loo at uni. So I am trying to eat more foods that bung you up a bit as I prefer a more solid poo, it can be a pain when it is really hard but I would much prefer that than it being mushy.
and here is my answers to sarah's restaurant poo survey.
1. have you been in the same bathroom as a waitress/waiter or restaurant employee while they used the bathroom?
Yes this happened a few months back and it has never happened to me ever before, after eating my dinner I went to the loos it was an odd moment where I walked in the toilets and it smelled a bit and I noticed one of the cubicles was taken. I could hear the guy finishing off wiping and getting his trousers sorted as I went for my wee. After my wee I went to the sinks to wash my hands, as I looked up I noticed it was one of the chefs as he was wearing the kitchen jacket standing washing his hands at the sink. I was washing mine and I am pleased to say that he washed his hands very well after his poo but still I felt bad that he was wearing the kitchen jacket while he did his poo. I had already eaten there so it was too late to be put off, luckily I did not get ill from that restaurant and my poo remained the same the next day actually still pretty hard and constipated. This was quite a well known chain of restaurants in the UK so it wasn't like a cheap place. but I won't mention which one. I am not sure I will go back.
2. did they go number 1 or 2? what was it like?
Mentioned above, they did number 2 and it was a pretty strange experience to witness one of the chefs take a number 2, it has never happened to me before in all my time eating in restaurants (I am in my early 20s so I have eaten at many) and I hope it never happens again, it can be amusing but might put you off a bit.
3. have you gone in the bathroom after a restaurant employee had used it?
Well I guess yes same as above.
4. have you seen a waitress/waiter clog a toilet?
No I never saw a waitress clog a toilet but I did witness a waitress unclog a toilet that was pretty badly clogged. It was not me that clogged it, the whole restaurant was talking about it as the waitress was not happy she had to unclog it and most people overheard. It was in a unisex toilet so the waitress could go in, Nobody found out who the clogger was but whoever it was takes big poos. As it was unisex it could have been any gender that did that monster poo.
5. have you had to use an employee bathroom?
No
6. have you heard waitresses/waiters talk about needing the bathroom?
Yes but not actually needing it then, the waitress was telling a story to her colleague about when she really needed the toilet one time.
Kevin
Outdoor buddy dump after sleepover + friends pooping
This my first time writing a story on this website. I'm 17 year old guy.
About a week ago I slept over at a friends house when his parents weren't at home, his name is Harry, my other friends Liam and Noah also came over. I hadn't pooped in about 5 days which is weird since I usually go once a day, I'm a very big pooper and often clog toilets. We played some games and after about 4 hours Harry got up and said he needed to take a big dump. Liam also got up to take a poop and I finally felt a small urge to poop as well. Harry has two toilets in his house but his older sister Olivia clogged one of them that afternoon so we couldn't use it.
Harry quickly ran inside the toilet first, it seemed he was pretty desperate. Me and Liam waited outside and Noah came with us. I heard Harry pull down his pants and before he even sat down already shot out multiple plops. 'Sorry guys but the last time I took a poop was like two days ago so I will probably take a while', said Harry.
Oh by the way, all of us are pretty open about pooping since we all share a fetish about it and like to make it a competition, we often take a picture of our shit and compare it to each other to see who poops the most. I'm a big pooper like I said earlier so I usually do the biggest poops, after me comes Noah, Harry and as last Liam. Even though Liam does the smallest poops of us four, his poops are still bigger than average, we all just poop A LOT.
Now back to Harry, he said 'Listen to this guys' as he started to push and a lot more plops came raining down from his ass. 'If you keep going like that you might clog this toilet as well so do a courtesy flush' Liam said, Harry answered with 'Cool, just let me take a picture of this load first'. He took a picture, flushed and continued pooping. Liam was moving around and getting pretty desperate, while I remained calm. 'Harry, how much longer do you need? My stomach really hurts' Liam asked, Harry replied with 'I'm far from empty'. For the next 5 minutes Harry kept dropping small plops. Before flushing the last load he took picture, got up and said 'That was the best poop I have taken in a while', he took about 15 minutes in total. 'Oh my god finally' Liam said while rushing in the bathroom, didn't even bother to shut the door and exploded with diarrhea. Just as he exploded, Olivia came to the bathroom needing to take a poop as well, looked at Liam pooping and asked 'You okay?' 'I'm doing fine, my stomach just hurts', on which I replied with 'Yeah we can hear and smell it'. Olivia told me she has been having abnormally big poops multiple times a day over the last week which is why she clogged the toilet downstairs and that she was pretty desperate so I let her go before me since I was able to hold it for a while.
Liam kept at it with the diarrhea for about 10 minutes and also took a picture before flushing.
'My turn now' Olivia said as she pulled down her pants and let us watch her poop. At this point Harry went back to his room to play games since it was weird for him to watch his sister poop and made him feel uncomfortable. Olivia bare down and started pushing and grunting. She pushed real hard and her huge turd made it half way out, she took a deep breath and started pushing again. After 4 minutes of pushing her 16 inch long turd made its way out and Olivia moaned in relief. 'All done' she said, me, Noah and Liam looked into the bowl in awe. All four of us knew that monster was not going down so we didn't bother flushing. 'Looks like I clogged another toilet hehe' Olivia said 'But don't worry, tomorrow someone will come to unclog the toilet downstairs so he can also do this one as well' she explained. 'Am I just supposed to poop on top of this?' I asked on which she replied 'Yeah go ahead, we'll see how much you have to add to my art'. Harry came back to watch because he was curious how much I was going to poop since I poop the most of us all.
A little nervous I pulled down my pants. I still didn't really feel the urge to go but I could feel something so I just tried. 'Show us what you got' said Noah. I started pushing really hard but nothing came out. 'I actually didn't poop for the last 5 days so I might be constipated', Liam replied with 'Just push, with a bit of luck you might be able to poop'. After 10 minutes of pushing nothing came out, 'I give up, maybe tomorrow' I said, 'Alirght then, let's all just head to bed and maybe tommorow you will be able to poop'. Then we all went to bed.
The next morning I woke up with no urge to poop at all. We all went downstairs, drank coffee and ate breakfast. We all had to leave the house before 11 AM because Harry's parents would be home by then. Liam got picked by his parent at 10 so it was my Harry and Noah left. Me and Noah live in the same street and came by bike so we would also leave together. 'I would like to do my morning poop before we go but I don't feel the urge to go' Noah complained on which I replied with 'I should be the one complaining since I haven't pooped in the last 6 days!'. 'Now, now, don't fight guys, drink some more coffee, it might help' Harry said while handing us another cup of coffee. After the coffee me and Noah still didn't feel the urge to poop.
At this point it was already 10:40 AM so we waved Harry and Olivia goodbye and hopped on our bikes. It was a 40 minute ride by bike. About 20 minutes in while we were riding through a forest I suddenly felt a strong urge to poop, finally!. 'The coffee is starting to work I think' I said as I looked to my left seeing Noah holding his stomach saying 'I feel it too now'. We stopped biking and went furter into the forest where no one would see. While walking over to a fallen tree where we could sit on I said to Noah 'I'm 100% sure this will be the biggest poop in the history of mankind' Noah laughed and replied 'I bet mine is gonna be even bigger!' which I really really doubted. We pulled down our pants and let our asses hang over the edge of the tree trunk, we both starting pushing and grunting. I could see that Noah immediately dropped a log and was working on his second log. I was still working on my first one, it felt so so good to finally poop. Noah's second log and my first big log both dropped at the same time and it felt so good I just couldn't help but moan in relief. We both took a peek and saw that Noah had dropped a 6 inch and 8 inch log and mine was a whopping 17 inches, beating even Olivia's turd. Noah said 'Looks like you're still the king of pooping Kevin' which made me laugh and a little proud too. 'I think I have one more log, what about you?' Noah asked 'I feel another big log' which didn't surprise Noah at all. Noah dropped another 6 inch log and got up to grab some leaves to wipe his ass with. He took a picture of his poop and sent it to our groupchat. I pushed and grunted out another 12 inch log. 'All done' I said while peeking at my two enormous logs, Noah handed me some leaves to wipe my ass with. I pulled up my pants and stood, but then, I felt round two coming. I told Noah to wait because I had another load and he looked at me in awe and said 'After those two huges logs you got even more?!', I didn't even reply and pulled down my pants. I let my ass hang over and started pooping a huge soft load, it seemed endless, it just kept going and going and I literally couldn't stop pooping. It felt so good I kept moaning while droping this huge pile of soft poop. Noah said in absolute disbelief 'How is one human possible of producing this much poop?!' he sounded a little jealous, 'Well, this IS the first in time I'm pooping in 6 days' I said on which Noah immediately replied 'That still doesn't explain this load!'. After 5 minutes of non stop pooping I finally stopped quite empty yet so I started pushing hard. After a minute round 3 came pouring down out of my ass which lasted another 3 minutes. I wiped my ass and looked proudly at my huge load. 'This has to be the biggest poop in the history of mankind' Noah said on which I replied with a simple 'yes'. I took a picture and we hopped on our bikes talking about my legendary poop for the last 20 minutes while going home.Peregrine W
reply to Brandon and more detail
Hello all, just recovering from a bout of the worst diarrhoea I can remember. I felt rough all day and had an event in the evening with friends. At the end of the evening, I needed the loo, and, having eventually located the bathroom where the event was held, sat down and farted. What happened afterwards was like peeing out of my rear end. The same happened every hour or thereabouts for the next 24 hours. At one time, I even ended up expelling liquid in my sleep. I don't know whether it was a bug or food poisoning, but if a bug, I advise all on here to watch out, as it will cause huge embarrassment.
To return to Brandon's questions about spying on girl friends. I remember 2 of them becoming quite angry and stating words like "it's disgusting" and "how could you, it's private?" I felt this a little exaggerated as it was not as if I had not already seen them stark naked, but possibly my espionage had put them off the job in hand and they had not been able to empty their bowels.
2 others had clearly spotted my interest, but merely smiled indulgently and said nothing. Others actually participated. One always left the bathroom door ajar when she was performing, hoping, I suspect to be observed. She was quite regular, and liked to take her time, so a good repartee ensued. Another actively encouraged voyeurism, and she enjoyed watching me as much as I, her. Although quite regular, she would let out enormous farts on the throne, which rattled the bowl. She also liked to sit upright when performing, which, I suspect, added to the effect.
More as I recall details, and watch out for that bug.....
P
Chase
First doorless stall experience with my cousin
I have a story. I was very very young at the time of the story and probably in the middle of or just finished potty training. I was with my 13 year old cousin Jake and my aunt. We were taking a really long walk. We went outside of the neighborhood and everything. Jake brought his skateboard. My aunt and Jake bickered a little because he kept on going too far ahead of us. Other then that it was a nice walk.
I had to poop but didn't want to interrupt our walk. When it became too urgent I told my aunt I needed to poop. We started looking for a bathroom. We found one that looked really run down and it had no door but better than nothing. She told Jake to take me to the bathroom. We got in the bathroom and I saw that it had only doorless stalls. That place had no doors not even the main entrance of the whole bathroom! We walked past every stall and in the first stall was a guy who was probably a little older than my cousin and he was playing games on his phone, pants at his ankles, everything completely exposed, and he was peeing and starting to poop. When he realized we were there he stretched the bottom of his shirt to cover himself. We saw anyway so I laughed because back then to me everything about poop, pee, privates and toilets was so funny. Jake apologized and we walked by the next stall. As we walked I got a stomach cramp. I wasn't in the mood anymore to be laughing at people on the toilet but I did still look because of curiosity even though we were all male. Well all except for one girl who I'll get to in a second. In the second one was an old man who was openly pooping unashamed and leaning back as if he was at home. The next had a boy around probably 5 who was sitting and peeing. And the next had a boy who looked around 10 or 11 pooping and I think it was his brother as they looked alike. The one after that had a little girl who was probably around my age and she was peeing and pooping at the same time. I was really interested because I had never seen a girl's vagina before nor had I seen a girl peeing or pooping. As Jake continued walking I stayed behind to satisfy my curiosity and she didn't seem to mind me watching. ((This later lead to a lot of questions like why her private area didn't look like mine, why it was just a 'crack', and other questions)). And when Jake realized that I stopped there, he came back and grabbed my arm a little roughly and told me not to be impolite. In the next stall was a guy who was middle age and he was farting and pooping. The last stall had a man who was just sitting there and he seemed to not be doing anything. I asked him if he was done and Jake pulled me away and said it's none of your business. After checking all the stalls we found no empty one. That ment we had to wait. We walked back to the entrance of the bathroom and a few other guys came in and Jake said every stall was taken. Some stayed to wait and others just left. We waited in front of the first stall but turned our backs to give him privacy. I began farting loudly a lot of times. I held my bottom and whined. I looked behind us at the guy on the toilet a few times and Jake apologized to him and reminded me I had to wait my turn. A painful few minutes later, the guy behind us was done and flushed the toilet and he said to Jake it's all yours.
I got in front of the toilet and Jake got my shorts and briefs down to my ankles and sat me on the toilet which made me laugh because the seat was still warm from the guy who had just got off it. ((Nowadays it grosses me out a little bit when the toilet seat is warm in public bathrooms)) I started farting loudly and poop quickly shot out one after another. I started peeing and looked down at the long stream coming from my little weenie. I started to strain and I got more poops out as I peed. At this time the girl who I saw on the toilet was finished and was walking out with a man who was probably her dad and as she passed by me she looked at me and my 'equipment' curiously too. She said now you're peeing and pooing too and I can see your wiener! Then she covered her mouth shyly and giggled. Jake just laughed and didn't say anything. When her dad realized he said sorry she's just really curious and Jake said he is too so it's fine then her dad pulled her away, like what my cousin did with me when it was the other way around.
I took a while because of the amount of pushing at the end. In fact one large and long piece of poop got stuck half out and after pushing for a minute I tried to get up off the toilet with it still dangling and Jake said no, what are you doing, you have to push it all the way out first and you know that. I kicked and fussed because I just wanted it out and to go back to our walk. He asked are you pushing and the sooner you get it out the sooner you can get off the potty and I said I'm pushing as hard as I can!!!! I strained very loudly and got another inch out but it still dangled from me and it was nowhere near done. I pushed again and got a few more inches out and he said wow good job but I looked down at the hanging poo again and pushed again and a real sharp pain in my butthole overtook me and I started crying hysterically and kicking and saying Jakey get it out now!!!! Jakey it hurts!! This whole time before, he was several feet away from the stall but still able to talk to me and hear me. I would have thought he'd have stood closer to act as a door to shield me from passersby seeing me but he never stood close enough to cover me even though I was in the first stall. At this point he moved closer to me and knelt in front of me and said you've got this, push really hard and squeeze my hand as hard as you want. So I did. It took a really long time and it was longer than a few minutes but I finally got it all out and it made a plopping noise as me and Jake watched it. Jake said good job and I said yay Jakey its out now and he said yeah I saw that and your parents are gonna be proud of how strong you are. He asked if I was done and I said yes. He asked are you sure and I said yes. So then he grabbed a bit of toilet paper and wiped me. I giggled as he wiped my little penis and then he told me to lean forward and from behind me he wiped my bottom many times. I hopped off the toilet and then he pulled my pants and briefs back up. He let me flush and I watched as it all went down.
And when that was done, right before we washed our hands, Jake said I've gotta pee too so he got in front of a urinal and unzipped his pants and pulled his penis out and started to pee into the urinal. I watched curiously and he laughed and told me to look away and that I had the same things that he did so he asked why I was so interested, then he said why don't you flush a urinal or something to keep yourself occupied until I'm done. I flushed the one next to him which did not distract me for too long. I turned back to him and said Jakey why are you going peepee so much and he said I just drank lots of water today and a few seconds later his stream got weaker and then it stopped completely then a few spurts came out. Then he shook off his penis and put it back in his boxers and zipped up and buttoned his pants and we went to the sinks. The sinks were taller than usual for some reason so he washed his hands then held me up so I could wash mine. He got two paper towels off of the paper towel holder and handed one to me and dried his hands with the other. I gave mine to him once I was done drying my hands and he threw it out with his paper towel too. We got out of the bathroom and re joined my aunt who was asking why it took so long and Jake told her that we had to wait then I took a while then he had to go too. We continued our walk and I loved the relief I felt after going to the bathroom.
Well that's the end of that story and sorry it was long. I want to finish the post with a survey for everyone if it's ok.
1 have you ever had to use the bathroom but you were in the middle of a fun activity and didn't want to interrupt it? For me I was too interested in our walk so I waited until it became urgent so I was wondering if anyone else had the same experience before.
2 have you ever had a piece of poop get stuck in your bottom and if so how long did it take for you to push it all out? Did you feel a lot of relief after?
3 have you ever used a doorless stall and what was it like for you? Were you embarrassed? When I used it I wasn't that embarrassed because I was so young.
4 did you have a lot of curiosity as a child too the way I did? Was the curiosity toward the same or opposite gender? For me I was curious about everyone
5 when you fart when you have to poop does it smell different from when you fart without having to poop? For me when I have to poop my farts are a lot worse smelling
6 has anyone had an experience like mine in general? I see lots like mine but wonder if anyone else had any.
7 how long was your longest bathroom visit?
8 have you ever been watched on the toilet by a stranger and for how long, how did you feel and did you make them stop and if so how did you do it?
Thank you and have a good day everyone that's all from me for nowAaron
To Tina
Hi Tina, it seems that you've gotten a lot of good advice already but I wanted to put my 2 cents in.
I don't know much about what would happen but I think I have an idea of what might happen. I'm no doctor though so these are just some theories. Not pooping for over 2 weeks can and will make you very very sick. If you do end up sick, at the hospital they'll have to make you go. Probably by withholding the Imodium and other methods you're using to avoid pooping. If that doesn't work, I'd imagine an enema would be in order. I doubt that wouldn't work, but if it doesn't, then I'd imagine more invasive methods would be necessary. I'd think your body would involuntarily go regardless of the methods used before it got to that point but I am not sure.
Holding it in can cause all kinds of serious problems. Poop is waste and it needs to be evacuated. If the waste remains in your body you could end up with a blood infection like sepsis which you could die from especially if not treated promptly. And I think there was a kid who refused to poop and ended up having to have a colostomy bag. I saw an article online about it recently. And there have been many other cases like that.
Again I'm not a doctor so I'm not sure. Take everything I say with a grain of salt because of that. Victoria B is right and articulates a lot better than me, plus she has personal experience so please listen to her. I also think a nasogastric tube could eventually have to be placed. A nasogastric tube is a tube that goes up your nose, down your throat and all the way down into your stomach. Apparently it's a very very very painful process and you can't be unconscious for it.
Pooping is something we all must do and it's natural and it's for our own well-being and survival. Also I do apologize if this sounds harsh in any way. I don't always come off the way I intended when it's online. But I am not trying to be condescending or judgmental at all. I just wanted to say that to make sure you don't feel bad after reading this.
This may sound strange but if you have a friend you trust, a family member, anyone really, you can speak to them on the phone while you're going if that helps you. You could even have them there with you holding your hand if you'd like. Or you could bring a comfort item or game to play while you go. Or listen to music or watch a video. Whatever makes you most comfortable. You don't have to go through it alone and the relief is gonna be so worth it and you'll be grateful to have not gotten to the point of needing emergency medical intervention.
I highly recommend reaching out to a therapist to talk about this. I hope you're okay and I know you'll be relieved when you get all that poop out. I believe in you!
Monster Poo
Hi David P here again
I hadn't had a proper poo in about three days as I mentioned about the pebbles in my last story but with a major urge to open my bowels yet nothing would come. That night I struggled to sleep as I had a bloated belly and felt pretty backed up. I managed to sleep but kept waking up in the night with a belly ache. The next morning the bloating wasn't as bad but still there. So I went to get some breakfast, white toast. I know I should eat more fibre but I prefer white bread, chips and chocolate and after that I went to run myself a bath. I still didn't have an urge to go but I thought since I was feeling bloated I better have a sit on the toilet and see. So I pulled down my trousers and sat on the loo and just sat there for a few minutes, it seemed like nothing would happen but after some time I started to get the familiar pressure like I needed to poo. I think sitting there on the loo triggered the response from my body that it was time to go. The urge got stronger and stronger and it felt like it was going to be a big one. So I relaxed my bum muscles and felt a sharp sensation as the tip of this huge poo started to emerge. I waited to see what would happen and the poo slowed down to a stop maybe a couple inches out. It felt rock hard and uncomfortable with it stuck jamming my bumhole open so I started to push. When I relaxed the poo slid back inside my bum and I lost my progress and I lost the urge to push, so I decided to get up off the toilet and just walk around the bathroom in hope it would trigger it. I sat back down but the urge did not come back after it had slid back in. So I pushed again, this time without my body helping me it felt a lot harder. I pushed again and could feel the poo reaching my bumhole again, it felt so uncomfortable. I strained again and it inched out a bit and as I released my breath it slid back in again . This poo was being really stubborn, I hate when this happens and have no idea why it does, you would think since it is a waste product and not good for you the body would want to get rid of it not keep sliding it back inside! Anyway back on the story, I decided to sit with my back straight against the tank and lift my bum off the seat as I pulled my cheeks apart. I took a deep breath and pushed again this time with my cheeks parted and feet stamping on the floor and grunted as I released my breath I then pushed again, as I did so I felt the tip slide slowly out again. Pulling my bum cheeks apart was kind of hurting me so I decided to sit back down on the seat. The rock hard poo was now staying out and not going back in thank god. I went up on tip toes and strained and kept up the pressure. With each push the poo slowly slithered out and felt really hard and knobbly, as the knobbly bits came through it hurt a bit. After a while I could feel the poo getting easier and it started to slither out slowly without me needing to push so I let my body take care of the rest. I sighed with relief as I felt it drop from my hole and into the loo, as it hit the water it barely made much of a sound, just a slight sloop sound as it was so big. It must have taken a good 15 minutes for this poo.I looked into the loo and saw this huge knobbly poo sticking up out of the water, the end looked soft which was probably why it was easier to get out and the rest looked really knobbly like grapes stuck together and went back really far into the bend. I then had to get my phone that was charging in the bedroom with my pants just bellow my bum trying not to show too much in the windows ( the curtains were not drawn) and it looks over some houses. I quickly got the phone and ran back to take a quick snap, that was such a big poo it needed a picture. II then wiped, flushed and washed my hands and amazed it all went away. After I felt so much lighter and sat happily on my bed enjoying how light I felt after passing that monster poo. My bum felt sore though and still does today, I think I got a fissure from this.
That is all for now I hope you enjoyed the story, I would like to reach out to more posters on here so any questions ask away!Catherine
Hello to Everyone! A Note to Tina
It has been a long time since I posted. I am so sorry because I have really missed the conversation and interacting with you all! It's so good to see Victoria and Robyn posting! I hope you are well! And Mina, I hope you and the three crushes are well! I love your posts!
I have peaked at the forum in the past year, but we have so much going on! "Chloe," our daughter, is a senior in HS this year and has been visiting colleges, applying and applying for scholarships. Also, my parents sold their home in the spring and have moved to a retirement center. They still have independent living right now, but can increase their level of care as they age. My mother was diagnosed with Parkinson's and though she is still OK right now, she will need increasing care as the years go by.
I am still having two large, voluminous bowel movements daily and the family seems to be enjoying their BMs, as we eat a pretty high fiber diet full of vegetables, beans, whole grains and nourishing vegetarian recipes, even though we do not claim vegetarianism.
For those who do not know me, I'm from the Deep South, 6'1, weigh 200 lbs and am curvy and athletic. I will be 42 next weekend.
I came out of toiletstool retirement because I read Tina's concerning post and the interaction with Mina, Kristi (you write amazing posts!) and Victoria B.
So this is to Tina:
Tina, I read your posts about your disgust with defecation and your desire to withhold your BMs to eliminate the feeling of feces sliding through you and out of you. I am really concerned. Yes, you can die from withholding your bowel movements. But you can also harm your body long term by limiting your BMs. You can lose your gut motility so that you must take a laxative or have an enema in order to defecate. You could have lifelong chronic constipation. Too, you can also cause yourself to lose control over your bowels. When your feces becomes impacted, sometimes liquid stool slides around the impacted stool and exits your anus without your consent, creating a mess. You could increase your risk for colon cancer, which, in worse cases requires surgery and a permanent colostomy bag.
If you would like to talk, we all would reply with compassion because no one wants you to suffer.
I imagine that not everyone enjoys defecating like many of us who post on this forum. That's OK. We don't want to convince you to "like it." We just want you to know that this is a natural part of life that everyone does on a regular basis, like eating, breathing, urinating, passing gas, or sleeping.
If you would like to respond, here are some questions that I thought might help:
1. When did you realize that defecation disgusted you? What happened? Did someone shame you? Did you embarrass yourself?
2. What are your normal bowel movements like? Are they loose, runny, gassy and crampy? Are they hard, lumpy and painful? Have you ever had a bowel movement that would be considered ideal, like a long, smooth log or snake?
3. Are you able to control your diet? Can you choose good foods or does someone else provide food for you? Does your means limit your access to good food?
4. Do you have privacy when you go to the bathroom?
I know these are personal questions but maybe they can help. If you do not feel comfortable with a conversation then I will not have my feelings hurt. I care and so do others on this forum.
Sending love, prayers and positive energy your way.
And, I hope everyone else is doing well and "dooing" well!
Love to all!
Catherine!Hisae Kazumi Maho Mina (typist is Mina)
Sorry to Tina
Hello Tina. We are sorry that we make you feel bad. Your body belong to you so you do the way you want.
You said, maybe you have to do motions soon. that is true. So we give you advice for last time. When you have to do, take nice thing with you to loo. CD player, picture book, phone.... Then when you are on loo, enjoy music or something beautiful to see, and try not to think about your motion.
Kazumi always says, she hate to keep body waste inside her bottom. She want to push out, so it will not be inside her any more.
From now we don't give you advice no more. But we will read your posts, we hope it will be happy posts. We wish you a good luck. We love you very much.
Maho and Kazumi and Hisae and MinaMidwest Anonymous
Post Lunch Shit
I had a spicy chicken sandwich for lunch today and I felt the need to shit soon after. I went to my bathroom and since I was just in my white briefs I pulled them down and sat on the toilet. I kicked them off when they were at my ankles.
I started pissing as soon as I sat down since I had a large lemonade. Shortly after I started to shit. I kept shooting spurts of piss from my penis and I got some on the front of the seat. I rolled off some toilet paper to wipe off the seat.
I ended up dropping one log with small pieces of shit as well. I started wiping my ass. I wiped once and I noticed heavy residue, I wiped a second time same thing, I refolded that piece of toilet paper and still noticed residue, I did the same thing two more times and I eventually had to flush the toilet since it got filled up with my used toilet paper as well as my shit.
I wiped my ass the same way until I was clean which was about 3 wads of paper not to mention refolding them. After wiping I had a short stream of piss shoot out my penis. When I finished with my short piss I noticed a drop of piss on the front of the seat so I wiped that up and I let the toilet paper fall back on my penis so I didn't have to worry about any stray drops getting in my white briefs. I stood up, pulled my briefs up making sure to adjust my penis to my liking. Then I closed the toilet lid and flushed the toilet.
Thanks for reading another one of my stories. I'm still trying to figure out what experiences are the most interesting. Mainly because I don't want to write about every shit I take because I know that would get boring.
Another huge shoutout to Upstate Dave and Louise for inspiring me to post here.Mina
P.S. to Tina
Earphones is also good, when you have to go to loo.
Love, Mina + 3
Laura
To Hollyrae
They must be High toilet pans if your feet were off the floor (depending on how tall you are) if it loud to pee I imagine a poo would make some good sounds don't be embarrassed about it
To David p
You must have felt great getting rid of that big load especially when the big log finally dropped I was on the toilet the other evening and also had a big poo that stuck about an inch above the waterline I didn't realise it was that big until I got off the loo and seen it was easy to pass as it was very soft and smooth so caught me of guard
Kermit
To Tina: get you some helkp
Hi Tina,
you should see a medical specialist and maybe also a psychologic one immediately. It is very likely that you damager your body irrevserible when you continue this way. I understand that you try to prevent pooping at all but this is a kind of illness and you should get yourself help for that now.
Kermit
Catherine
Surveys
Hi! While waiting for replies to my last post, I thought I would do some surveys for old time's sake!
Sarah's restaurant poop survey
1. have you been in the same bathroom as a waitress/waiter or restaurant employee while they used the bathroom? I'm sure that I have, but it never made an impression that I would remember
2. did they go number 1 or 2? what was it like? I'm sure it was to pee, or I probably would have remembered it.
3. have you gone in the bathroom after a restaurant employee had used it? Maybe, but again, it did not make an impression on me.
4. have you seen a waitress/waiter clog a toilet? No
5. have you had to use an employee bathroom? No
6. have you heard waitresses/waiters talk about needing the bathroom? No, except on this forum.
Tracy's Question:
Does anybody else have a friend whose family is totally comfortable going to the bathroom with the door open or when someone else is there? Are there any bathroom habits that you find odd or strange? No. I have never known any friends to have odd habits, such as the whole family using the bathroom with the door open. Alan and I will go in front of each other, but we will close the door if the kids are home. The girls close the door and our little boy will pull the door to, but not close it all the way.
Kristi's Survey:
1. Are you a guy or a girl? Woman (I don't think at 41, almost 42, I can say 'girl' anymore!)
2. What kind of relationship are you in (married, dating, friends with benefits, engaged, etc.)?
Married
3. Can you pee in front of your significant other? Meaning that your partner is in the room as you pee? Yes.
4. If so, how long were you in a relationship before you could pee in front of your partner? Honeymoon. We waited until we got married, but I had no problem after that.
5. If you CAN'T pee in front of your partner, why not? (No judgment here. Just part of the survey.) NA
6. Can you poop in front of your partner? Can he or she be in the room with you? If not, can you leave the door open? Yes. We poop in front of each other often.
7. How long were you in a relationship before you could poop in front of your partner, or at least in the same space? I intentionally did it for him on the honeymoon. He did too.
8. If you can't, what's the reason? NA
9. What does your partner do in terms of going to the bathroom in front of you? Pee? Poop? Both.
10. If you don't currently use the bathroom in front of your partner, or if you're partner doesn't go I'm front of you, is that something you wish you could change? NA
11. Do you tell your partner if you have to pee or poop? Yes
12. Somewhat-unrelated question: If you had to go (pee, poop, or both) really badly, and the only option was in a restroom for the opposite sex, would you do it? Yes.
Love to all!
Catherine!
Ronette
Adults avoiding public bathrooms
Monty, my boyfriend turned 23 this past weekend, and I wanted to take him out to celebrate. However, I had a previous commitment to babysit two boys that live with their mom in his apartment building. Thor is 7 and his brother Lance is 6. They are almost perfectly behaved.
So me and Monty decided to take the boys to a day-long festival at a pumpkin patch that is in a rural area outside our city. It took us four train transfers to get there but I wanted Monty to get out of his apartment and do more things. He has a great job, but doesn't venture out much unless I prod him into it.
He required Lance and Thor to pee at his apartment before we left. Good idea. He thought Lance was done and he walked into the bathroom while Lance was still on the toilet. Monty felt really bad about that. I was hoping to use the toilet, too, but since the trains don't run as frequently on weekends, I tried to hustle the guys along.
By the time we walked to the transit station we had missed our train by a minute or two. I had downed a good amount of coffee while Monty was still sleeping and I couldn't wait to go down the stairs to the toilets and relieve myself. There are two toilets in the ladies room separated by a block wall, but the privacy doors have been removed. I lowered my jeans to knee level and took my seat on the first one. The way I was sitting over much of the seat was the most comfortable, but I looked between my legs to find that I had filled the bowl with a huge amount of bubbles.
After washing my hands and rejoining Monty and the boys on the train bench, Thor said he and Lance are not allowed by their mom to use most public toilets. Reasons given was the bad condition they are in, some of the drunks and druggies that might be in there, and sometimes how long the wait period is for a toilet. Monty said that he was raised that way too, and he has never sat down on a public seat without covering it first. For me, however, its imperative and I got to thinking about how I had used the toilets seven times the previous day on my college campus and at the transit centers. I took my afternoon crap at the pumpkin patch in a bathroom that was designed for young users half my age.
Monty and Thor got into a bit of an argument because Monty took issue with Thor's habit of sitting down to pee. Monty used some strong words he probably shouldn't have, but I broke the argument up.
Sarah:
My first job at age 15 was in a restaurant. Oddly, the full-time dishwasher, a middle-aged lady with big attitude, would often sit in the adjacent cubicle to me. She would use most of her 30 minute break on the toilet taking her shit. What I found odd was that she always took down one of those seat tissues for he seat. But as she sat she moved her legs too much and I could hear it tear apart under her big butt.
Alice:
You asked if it was odd for a user to spread toilet paper over a public seat as a liner before sitting on it. I don't and most of my friends are the same way. If there are splashes on the seat, we may wipe them off before taking out seat. Its hard to tell whether the splashes are from an aggressive flusher or the other less-pleasant alternative.
Gregg:
I enjoyed your question about what toilet in a public restroom gets the most use. I think I read once that it is the middle one.
Steve M:
I love your stories! They are very descriptive.
Annie
Just dropped a massive shit after being constipated
Hi all. I had been constipated for quite a while so I haven't posted here in a while. Before breakfast I drank an entire jar of water, ate breakfast and enjoyed my first cup of coffee. After I was done I got a 2nd cup and had that with a jar of warm water I finished breakfast and felt the urge to poo near the end of my 2nd cup of black coffee so I quickly finished it and went to the bathroom. Quickly pulled my black pants and high-cut underwear down and sat on the toilet. Gave a gentle push and a massive soft shit came out finally! I was so happy and relieved :) It wasn't everything from my body (there's still quite a bit in there) but it was a hell of a good shit! Hopefully I can go more later.
Happy pooping!
Annie
Sunday, October 16, 2022
Embarrassing poo experience
When I was 21, I underwent gender transition surgery and had my neovagina constructed. I ended up getting diarrhea three days later and the poo dripped into my neovagina and I got infected.
sarah
shit at restaurant with cashier and restaurant poop survey
i went to a restaurant around 1:45 pm. this is a place where you order and wait and take the food with you. a young blonde girl with a pony tail took my order. i have been here before and its slow. i needed to take a shit the night before but did not. i decided to go take a dump while i waited. the bathroom was two stalls next to each other facing the sinks and door. the bathroom was empty and i took one of the stalls. i timed my shit. i sat for 22 seconds relaxing my bowels and did a few farts. my shit began to crown. i knew this was going to be a big shit and i had to push to get it going. it was slow to start but sped up. it broke off making a loud plunge into the bowl. the rest came out then a smaller third piece. this took 49 seconds. when i was in the middle of taking my shit another girl came in. she took the other stall and would have heard me shitting. she took a short but loud piss. i did not feel completely finished and stayed seated pushing out a few small bits and farts. the other girl did a loud long crackling poo that took 12 seconds. she sighed when it finished. this part of my bathroom trip lasted 56 seconds. i went to now piss it took 10 seconds to start and was a slow quiet trickle that lasted 19 seconds. the other girl had not started wiping yet. i began wiping i was messy it took 3 minutes exactly. while i was wiping the other girl did some wet farts and also wiped. she flushed and left her stall. a few seconds later i got up and saw my shit. it was one big log broken into two pieces and another piece on top. i felt much better and flushed. i was surprised it did not clog. when i left my stall the other girl was washing her hands. she was the blonde girl i had ordered from. she said sorry and that the employee bathroom had a broken sink and was being repaired.
has anyone else had this experience? i made a restaurant poop survey
restaurant poop survey
1. have you been in the same bathroom as a waitress/waiter or restaurant employee while they used the bathroom?
2. did they go number 1 or 2? what was it like?
3. have you gone in the bathroom after a restaurant employee had used it?
4. have you seen a waitress/waiter clog a toilet?
5. have you had to use an employee bathroom?
6. have you heard waitresses/waiters talk about needing the bathroom?